Personal Development

Post-trauma mental training

Trauma is an emotional response to a terrible event combined with shock and extreme helplessness.

Traumatic events include physical, psychological and sexual abuse; terrorism and war; domestic violence; witnessing violence against others; and accidents and natural disasters. They can result in serious stress and detrimental consequences for survivors and their families.

Approximately 50 percent of all individuals will be exposed to at least one traumatic event in their lifetime. Although the majority of individuals will be able to absorb the trauma over time, many survivors will experience long-lasting problems.

Longer term reactions include unpredictable emotions, flashbacks, strained relationships and even physical symptoms like headaches or nausea. Some people have difficulty moving on with their lives. Symptoms that are both chronic and severe are experienced, including nightmares, insomnia, somatic disturbances, difficulty with intimate relationships, fear, anxiety, anger, shame, aggression, suicidal behaviours, loss of trust and isolation.

Psychological disorders may also occur including depression, anxiety and alcohol/substance abuse problems.

Women at Risk

Research indicates that women are twice as likely experience a longer duration of posttraumatic symptoms and display more sensitivity to stimuli that remind them of the trauma (flashbacks).

Although women are at greater risk for negative consequences following traumatic events, many often wait years to receive help, while others never receive treatment at all.

Untreated posttraumatic symptoms not only have tremendous mental health implications, but can also lead to adverse effects on physical health. Female survivors may encounter physical symptoms including headaches, gastro-intestinal problems and sexual dysfunction.Although the mental and physical symptoms of PTSD stress can be quite debilitating, trauma is often undiagnosed by health professionals due to a lack of training, time and resources.

Some Namibian Data

Child Abuse

traumatised child

Child abuse includes physical, sexual, and emotional abuse and neglect (De Klerk, 2009, pp. 348-349) Often these forms of abuse go undetected. Children are afraid of reporting abuse to their parents or caregivers, and sometimes children have conflicting emotions when they are abused by someone they love. (Legal Assistance Centre, 2012, p. 21)

Domestic violence is not uncommon in Namibia. 28% of women and 22% of men in Namibia between the ages of 15 and 49 consider marital violence to be justified under certain circumstances. (UNICEF, Country Profiles, 2020)

A serious problem is violence against children in the form of physical discipline. A 2007/2008 study found that almost half (45%) of the children surveyed had been exposed to some form of physical discipline within the three months prior to the survey. More than a third (36%) even fell victim to what was considered excessive physical discipline. (Legal Assistance Centre, 2012, p. 22)

Some studies indicate that many Namibian children have already been victims of sexual abuse. A 2006 study found that 25% of respondents aged 10-14 and 15% of those aged 15- 24 had been exposed to one or more forms of sexual abuse by parents or caregivers. According to this study, sexual abuse is sexual contact with a parent or a caregiver, the compulsion to sexually touch a parent or a caregiver, or the compulsion to have sexual intercourse with a parent or a caregiver. (Legal Assistance Centre, 2012, p. 22)

Written by Giulia Welge

Violence against women

Lifetime Physical and/or Sexual Intimate Partner Violence: 26.7 % (Proportion of ever-partnered women aged 15-49 years experiencing intimate partner physical and/or sexual violence at least once in their lifetime. Source: The Nambia Ministry of Health and Social Services (MoHSS) and ICF International. 2014. The Namibia Demographic and Health Survey 2013. Windhoek, Namibia, and Rockville, Maryland, USA: MoHSS and ICF International.)

Physical and/or Sexual Intimate Partner Violence in the last 12 months: 20.2 % (Proportion of ever-partnered women aged 15-49 years experiencing intimate partner physical and/or sexual violence in the last 12 months. Source: The Nambia Ministry of Health and Social Services (MoHSS) and ICF International. 2014. The Namibia Demographic and Health Survey 2013. Windhoek, Namibia, and Rockville, Maryland, USA: MoHSS and ICF International.)

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The greatest form of abuse in Namibia and the most contributing factor

According to the Windhoek-based newspaper Namibian Sun, the physical and sexual abuse of women and children is "the greatest form of abuse in the country" (18 Nov. 2011). Furthermore, numerous sources report that the number of reported cases of gender-based violence is increasing ( The Namibian 5 July 2011; YWCA-Namibia 9 July 2012).

School- and community-based violence prevention strategies, including bullying prevention programs, as well as coordination among community leaders, law enforcement and individuals should be supported. Human trafficking should be addressed as well to prevent mass atrocities.

The Namibian Sun reports that, according to the Director of Gender Equality at the Ministry of Gender Equality and Child Welfare (MGECW), alcohol abuse is one of the most significant contributing factors to domestic violence ( Namibian Sun 18 Nov. 2011).

Alcohol 'destroying' Namibia - The Namibian More than half of Namibia's adults consume an average of 10 litres of alcohol a week 55,6% of adult Namibians consume about 33 bottles of beer a week 69,9% of adults in Windhoek drink 65,2% of adults in the South drink WHILE Namibians have become increasingly aware of the dangers of illicit drug use, alcohol seems to have slipped under the radar and is wreaking havoc in the country.

Signs and symptoms of emotional & psychological trauma

Many people experience strong physical or emotional reactions immediately following the experience of a traumatic event. Most people will notice that their feelings dissipate over the course of a few days or weeks. However, for some individuals, the symptoms of psychological trauma may be increasingly severe and last longer. This may be the result of the nature of the traumatic event, availability of emotional support, past and present life stressors, personality types, and available coping mechanisms. Some of the most common symptoms of psychological trauma may include the following:

Cognitive:

  • Intrusive thoughs of the event that may occur out of the blue
  • Nightmares
  • Visual images of the event
  • Loss of memory and concentration abilities
  • Disorientation
  • Confusion
  • Mood swings

Behavioural:

  • Avoidance of activities or places that trigger memories of the event
  • Social isolation and withdrawal
  • Lack of interest in previously-enjoyable activities

Physical:

  • Easily startled
  • Tremendous fatigue and exhaustion
  • Tachycardia
  • Edginess
  • Insomnia
  • Chornic muscle patterns
  • Sexual dysfunction
  • Changes in sleeping and eating patterns
  • Vague complaints of aches and pains throughout the body
  • Extreme alertness; always on the lookout for warnings of potential danger

Psychological:

  • Overwhelming fear
  • Obsessive and compulsive behaviours
  • Detachment from other people and emotions
  • Emotional numbing
  • Depression
  • Guilt - especially if one lived while other perished
  • Shame
  • Emotional shock
  • Disbelief
  • Irritability
  • Anger
  • Anxiety
  • Panic attacks

Effects of untreated psychological trauma

Many people go for years living with the symptoms of emotional and psychological trauma as their world grows steadily smaller. The effects of untreated psychological trauma can be devastating and infiltrate nearly every aspect of an individual’s life. Individual traumata always are traumatizing relationships as well. Some of the most common effects of untreated trauma include:

  • Substance abuse
  • Alcoholism
  • Sexual problems
  • Inability to maintain healthy close relationships or choose appropriate people to be friends with
  • Hostility
  • Workaholic
  • Constant arguments with loved ones
  • Social withdrawal
  • Constant feelings of being threatened
  • Self-destructive behaviours
  • Impulsive behaviours
  • Uncontrollable reactive thoughts
  • Inability to make healthy occupational or lifestyle choices
  • Dissociative symptoms
  • Feelings of depression, shame, hopelessness, or despair
  • Feeling ineffective
  • Feeling as though one is permanently damaged
  • Loss of former belief systems
  • Compuslive behavioural patterns

If you discovered you might suffer because you had a traumatic experience, please don´t hesitate to come into contact. In the 21st century the chances are big that you can get back the life quality you once enjoyed!